Currently im in grade 12. I met this girl in grade nine, so almost 4 years ago. We became really good friends. She moves after grade 10 and I loose contact with her (not really a big deal to me) so, so I become a member on facebook and guess who I stumble upon. Her profile. So we start talking again by writing on each others wall,msn, text messages and on the phone. She starts calling me hun, cutie, boyfriend, so I start calling her girl and girlfriend.So she opens up to me and tells me how she really feels. So somehow I end end up telling her I have similar feeling, but there is no physical attraction. So she asks me out on a date, so I agree cause you know she really likes me and I didnt want to hurt her by refusing so I figured you know i'll go out with her and then tell her its not going to work out. Now right now i'm going through this phase, and a relationship isnt the best thing for me. So we start talking yesterday and she asks me if there is any physical attraction, and I asked her if she wants me to tell her the honest truth, and she said yes. I told her there is just a tiny bit but I see her more as a friend, and thats all I can be just a friend. (this was on msn). The split second I told her that she signed out. Then around 10:30pm she right a note on facebook saying how stupid she was etc. She also send me a text message saying how I lead her on and how she thought I was different then other guys and that i'm not the only one with problems (which she doesn't know all of them and casn't really relate to some of the ones I have) aslo "you kinda push me away. Like I know you can't help who you like or don't like... But health question...You have the to be dumbest smart person I know." I basically broke her heart, now I feel bad but there was no chemistry there like what could I do. My emotions are basically messed up cause i've had alot of health question happen to me over the course of my life.
Ohh yeah heres the note she wrote:
"okay,
so tell me why i'm usually the most positive person towards other people and always give and give.. And I get no ounce of luck back in return?
I feel like i'm shat on...
And I really don't know why.
I'm superr confused and ****ed off right now.
Okay, so i'm upfront.. No problem with that...
But urgh I don't know...
!@#^ it's like I have "please hurt me" written on my forehead!!
I just can't handle all this crap anymore.
I give up."
Ohh yeah heres the note she wrote:
"okay,
so tell me why i'm usually the most positive person towards other people and always give and give.. And I get no ounce of luck back in return?
I feel like i'm shat on...
And I really don't know why.
I'm superr confused and ****ed off right now.
Okay, so i'm upfront.. No problem with that...
But urgh I don't know...
!@#^ it's like I have "please hurt me" written on my forehead!!
I just can't handle all this crap anymore.
I give up."
. Secondly, you might like to know that I give very sound advice on relationships, especially to the last person who I gave weekly advice to who unfortunately, subsequently ended up having an unplanned pregnancy after only several months of dating.
. Not to mention:
