thats why i don't have anything to do with my girls anymore There mother ran around behind my back while i was a work. the girls had a perfect teacher and they are just as bad. Ones on the street somewhere and one is supposed to be married again and the third??? I haven't talked to them in years and they are in there 40's so i just gave up on all of them. My current wifes kids had a good one,(the oldest), and the youngest that is about as bad as my girls. Her father was the baddie there. Deb lost her because the father had connections and deb didn't shes in her 30's somewhere and i was the first in her life after all that crap went down. Deb has been through the wringer for sure but her one daughter has me for her father as she hates the real father. Don't blame her. She is my princess and i love her to death. You can't pick your kids.. and if you don't want that kind of life around you it is your choice. I made my choice a long time ago. don't look back. it hurts less that way