The girl i love has only been put on this site ounce i believe, also im taking that girl to homecoming for the last time. Where as the earing, i know alot of guys that are far from gay that even have 2 or 3 earings. Its a trend and ive had myear pierced since i was in 6th grade. The ears pierced is not a sign of being gay anymore so get over it. Also, if you think having an earing is gay your very shallow. THats is all i have to say.