LOL...this came out to be totally misunderstood. I had so much on my mind that i failed to clarify this and now it's biting me in the butt. As a matter of fact, I don't believe a wife=sex slave. Quite the contrary. I believe sex should be a reserved act between two people who actually love each other for so much more than a phsyical relationship. I really don't view my girlfriend as a sex object who will be my physical desire reliever when I come home from a long day. I would rather just lay with her, talk to her, holding her, feeling her skin on mine rather than having intercourse.
As for me being judgemental, I really don't know how to explain this to you.. In my OWN view, I mess up just as much as anyone else, because it's in my nature just as everyone esle. I do not look down on porn stars, I don't look down on criminals, alcoholics, or drug addicts. We all have our demons and to God, they're all the same size whether it be stealing a penny from your neighbor or having an affair.
But lets put aside the debate because it will go nowhere fast, and just say we have our differences. Coolio?