Seriously you need to calm down, people are hear to help you.
The products i listed didnt find themselves... i sit there looking for each individual piece so i can help someone on the other side of the world i have never even meant. So please. Cool it.
Im sorry for not assuming you didnt want the best video card your money could get, but a girly looking one. The one i suggested is factory oc'd meaning you dont have to overclock anything and its faster than every other card of similar model. And seriously, with the case/mobo you will most likely get, you wont be able to see that hot Asus asian chick anyway without ripping the card out....
You said you didnt want to OC anything but the first CPU you suggested was a Phenom BLACK EDITION. Ie. The Overclocking version.... Ie. Made for overclocking.
As far as the motherboard, sure get the Asus, its good as well, we just like to recommended Biostar motherboards for some reason, most likely because people usually do well performance wise with them.
As for the harddrive, the reason you use so little is because of your PC. When you have a Quad core with a high end 4000 series ATI card and a small 120GB HDD, your gonna regret it, no matter how much you think you wont. Besides, whats the problem with getting a tad more than you need when the price difference is minimal at most.
Sorry for being a bit angry myself, but your not really making it easy for us. I responded with some suggestion about an hour or so ago and have logged on at 11pm at night just so i can make sure you understood and where happy with things and didnt need more help.
For me to come back and be confronted with some sort of outrage because i didnt assume wanted a card with a girl on it makes me wonder what the heck i got up for.