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Do you even know the definition of introverted? It literally says "a shy, reticent person". That literally explains somebody who would avoid those situations you're specifically talking about. A shy person is not going to willingly want to jump into a situation where they're surrounded by people wanting to socialize. Ever seen the memes about people going to parties only playing with the dog? Exactly that. Most introverted people want to avoid people, and the easiest way to do that is to stay at home where they're comfortable. That's not being psychologically underdeveloped, that's being introverted. Introverts are also usually quiet people, similarly linked to....SHY oh the irony, annnnnd you guessed it RETICENT. All things linked to not wanting to go out and be social. An introverted person is also not likely going to try and engage in conversation to get sexy time going, because they're shy. And yes, being introverted CAN be linked directly to not liking people besides mostly introverts. Why? Because introverts don't typically like outgoing, loud, or obnoxious people. AKA, extroverts. People typically found at parties or social gatherings.Staying at home because you're actively trying to avoid dealing with social situations means you're psychologically under-developed, and has nothing to do with intro/extroversion
edit: to expand slightly, introverts are just as capable of being gregarious, having fun at a party, etc as any other person. They'll just not gain energy from those activities and will need to do other types of activity to gain that energy back.
Not liking a lot of people also has nothing to do with introversion at all, just so happens there's a lot of introverts out there who never practice the things they're bad at and equate their failings with something innate in who they are. A friend of mine basically never comes out to any events whatsoever because he's too anxious every time about meeting new people or going into unknown situations. He says "it's because I'm introverted", as if being introverted means you're automatically sentenced to being bad at social things or you *must* be a quiet/shy person.
Actually, yes it pretty much does. Considering the fact that introverted has a direct definition of quiet/shy that explains that without any effort. Being anxious and weary of unknown situations is also linked directly to introversion. An introverted person can be nervous/anxious about meeting new people or being in an unknown situation because being shy or awkward can make the situation....awkward. Either that or you just don't say anything because you're shy. This leads to not exactly having a very good time no matter the company. Which is why most introverted people don't want to go out.A friend of mine basically never comes out to any events whatsoever because he's too anxious every time about meeting new people or going into unknown situations. He says "it's because I'm introverted", as if being introverted means you're automatically sentenced to being bad at social things or you *must* be a quiet/shy person.
Are there certain scenarios where somebody can have the above qualities and still go out to parties and social events? Yes, because most textbook introverts open up around people they're extremely comfortable with. I typically only go out and do things if it's specifically with certain people, otherwise I won't go. Why? Because I'll be too shy to want to do anything unless I'm with those specific people making it pretty much an unbearable event for me. So I'll chose to stay home rather than do anything.