honestly, i would have replyed sooner, but i dont have enough experience with wifi to know what the problem is.
and im also confused on your wording... doesnt the ethernet cable go strait from an external modem, to the wifi router... and then to your 3 comps threw wifi cards? u make it sound like there some different setup with the downstairs comp.
iv also heard b4 that wifi is not as reliable for gaming or high bandwitch tasks... but 802.11g is newer, and i dont know if it applys to it, cause g runs at 54mb/s lan.
i also dont know the option differencess between wifi routers and ethernet routers(cause iv never used wifi) but if the router has 'block wan requests' option. make shur its not on.
ur most likely using WEP, that may or maynot also afect the connction.
IMPORTANT- if your not using wep, u may end up like this guy..
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i also never played UT.. but if its online protocal is like Q3, u will always have lagg problems if your using a bootleg cdkey.(that may not apply to UT)
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the questions i asked though would most likely help some one who has more experience with wifi to narrow down a problem.
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maybe u might wont to try moving your comp downstairs next to the router temporarily to rule out any interference.