POPO and PP - not to be a downer - but a good percentage of the cost of living in your own house is the upkeep/maintenance of the house - sure the mortgage and utilities, and insurance are significant. But you have no upkeep, etc. in an Apt. Also, you now need to buy lawn items, washer/dryer/ and other appliances as opposed to using then in an APT and not paying for the upkeep/replacement on them. If you are very handy, have the knowledge, and have the time to fix stuff on your own, then upkeep is certainly cheaper. But even basic parts , paint/brushes,etc. , shingles, etc. are not free. You have to think of it as the cost of maintaining your vehicles X 10. I am sure you guys have thought all this out and this is budgeted appropriately. I bought my first house 21 years ago and the inside of the house was terribly dated and the yard ( 7/8 of an acre was a shambles) - but that is why I got it for a great price. I had a friend or 2 who were handy who taught me and helped to do stuff inside and my brother worked for a landscaping company when he was in college - so I could pick his brain regarding the lawn. I bought used lawn gear at first. etc.