thanks for the suggestions! i just drove down the street to Total Wine. WOW. I've never been in there, but it's like a HUGE candy store for adults. It's the size of a supermarket but ALL wine, liquor, cordials, beers, mixers, cigars. It was wonderful.
After wandering around aimlessly for 15 minutes or so (avoiding colliding with the many people with shopping carts) I checked out the rum section.
I ended up getting a huge bottle of Malibu coconut and a bottle of cocoa creme cordial. It's going to be a cocoa-night. HARHARHAR
i've already had 2 shots of a mix of both while listening to "No Quarter" by Led Zep. absolutely delicious. i love celebrating.