BennyV04988
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So, I met a girl at a party the other night. I wasn't really drinking, but she was. She took a strong liking to me but I didn't read very far into it. It was a highlighter party though so everyone was drawing and writing things on each others' shirts under the black-lights. She leans in and draws a Darwin fish on my shirt, and suddenly I'm paying attention. We start to flirt and hang together at the party. At the end of the night she suddenly writes her phone number on my shirt and then asks "wait, you're coming home with me right?". I tell her I couldn't possibly do that, not while she was drunk, nor when I hadn't met her sober. She was devastated; actually upset with me.
The next morning I message her and say, "admit it, I made the right decision last night." She agrees but says "I was so ****ed at you! I just wanted to snuggle!" Seeing that the sober version also likes me, I ask her if she wants to watch a movie at my place. She says she'd love to and we really hit it off, talking until 5am. She's smart, intellectual, well-read, utterly adorable too. Then, she kisses me. She ends up actually staying the night on my futon, requesting that I sleep there with her (not "sleep with her"). The next morning, as I drop her off, she gives me a really long kiss good bye.
She appeared completely genuine throughout our time together, but it's almost like we hit it off "too well". It felt like we had been dating for weeks, and we interacted with that same level of comfort and openness.
It's Tuesday now and we chat online, but obviously not with the full chemistry we have when we're around each other. She said online that she definitely likes me, but there's no rush. I don't get the sense that us hanging out this weekend is in the works, even though it's most definitely on my mind...
I'm really unsure how to proceed:
Do I ask to see her again sometime this week or weekend?
Do I leave her alone for a while and see if she starts to miss me?
Do I consider it a lame one-night-stand and move on?
The next morning I message her and say, "admit it, I made the right decision last night." She agrees but says "I was so ****ed at you! I just wanted to snuggle!" Seeing that the sober version also likes me, I ask her if she wants to watch a movie at my place. She says she'd love to and we really hit it off, talking until 5am. She's smart, intellectual, well-read, utterly adorable too. Then, she kisses me. She ends up actually staying the night on my futon, requesting that I sleep there with her (not "sleep with her"). The next morning, as I drop her off, she gives me a really long kiss good bye.
She appeared completely genuine throughout our time together, but it's almost like we hit it off "too well". It felt like we had been dating for weeks, and we interacted with that same level of comfort and openness.
It's Tuesday now and we chat online, but obviously not with the full chemistry we have when we're around each other. She said online that she definitely likes me, but there's no rush. I don't get the sense that us hanging out this weekend is in the works, even though it's most definitely on my mind...
I'm really unsure how to proceed:
Do I ask to see her again sometime this week or weekend?
Do I leave her alone for a while and see if she starts to miss me?
Do I consider it a lame one-night-stand and move on?