Theres alot of things a guy can do at my age that can be considered dumb.. Bringing a life into this world that will be loved and can be fully supported finanically. IMO that isnt considered 'dumb' to me in any way.
But really i dont know how this will turn out, i never had a son before
. Right now its going great, we just brought him home today and it seems pretty easy following the routine. But i mean im scared to be a father, i dont want to make mistakes. So idk we'll see i guess