I can bench 195 now and I weigh in at 165-170, it alternates somehow, today I was 168.5. To keep in shape I do sports, which is kinda not helpful to you because I think your out of highschool. I don't have ripped abs at all, in fact I have a keg right there but it doesn't bother me, because I don't have the enthusiasm, willpower, give-a-**** attitude to get one. I've also heard getting a 6 pack is just a diet, and crunches and crap are barely involved for the first 6 months of dieting, again, not my kind of thing, and I need more weight for football anyways.