Yes, i agree.....there are more important things in life. the #1 lesson that I learned from my father was:
1) Son, if you are going to join a forum.....please learn the forum....and post in the correct section. on that note......topic moved....
no, seriously, to each his/her own. i see people styling up their cars.....putting all this money into exhaust systems and whatnot.......and yes, i think it's a waste of money. but, let everyone just live the way they want to live. if everyone had their own worries and their own cares without overstepping anyone's business, i feel the world would be a better place.
maybe my definition of "my heart/life" or "having a heart/life" is what i'm doing. is that so wrong? "having a life" is so subjective. do what you want to do and be who you want to be and LOVE IT because you are comfortable with it.