Well for you, you probably should point your dns on your computer's to be the routers ip
As I mentioned before I cannot do this as it's required for active directory and would case some additional warnings/errors until I switched back which is why I was looking to be able to set the secondary with the server to the router's/google's.
I sounds like it might just be too much work for what I'm hoping to achieve and once things settle the reboots wouldn't be that often.