You split from you gf or wife?
Nope, been single for a rather long time now, got fed up with females that don't give a flip, so I stopped giving a flip about females. Problem solved, and to be fairly honest, my life has become a decent bit better since I started to look at things that way. Why bother holding a relationship together when most of the time, the other one in the relationship views long term commitment as a joke and is willing to cheat as soon as the next tasty, or rich person shows up.
1 - more money in my pocket
2 - no nagging
3 - no kids - *knocks on wood*
4 - no worries about getting an STD because your partner decides to spread their legs to god knows what else. Rather have sexual adventures with someone that has HIV and tells me up front than with a liar that's just trying to find time to ditch ya.
5 - yes, I did have a bad break up, a LONG time ago, and to be fairly honest, that's not what influences my views today.