See this seems to be the opinion of a LOT of society now, Unfortunately for this reason family values are dead, Single mothers and guys with kids all over with different mothers and people wonder why things are so messed up and when you get older there won't be anyone to take retirement and enjoying it with, I'll stick with my old fashioned values.
100%, im happily married (for 5months) been with my wife for 9 years though, no kids (not before marriage). I find old fashion values have gone..
I will raise my kids to follow the values my wife and I have! not to just sleep around and create diseases and babies with someone after a quick f##k.. or to degree themselves and their self value..