Ok so i tested each stick of ram separately and tested one in each slot... results came through with flying colors... yet I can only get 4gb of ram detected and not 6gb... I'll even say again that cpu z found the 6gb of ram, it also found it in slots 1,2,3 (technically 2,3,4.)
p8p67 pro doesn't go great with tri-channel so I went with dual channel 2x4gb: