ok I just found a paper at work today with all the employees in my department and the birthdates so I got her last name finally. Thank you guys for your help.
I am not a stalker dude. Stalking is when you follow the person around and spy on them. What is taboo?
Why do you call that stalking? Thats just bull crap.
Sounds like you have experience with stalking. I call it that because you are digging up information by sneaky means. Ask her where she lives, ask her her last name. Be up front about it and not try to sneak around and find out. Don't you think she might be a little freaked out when you or flowers show up at her house when she never told you that info? Taboo means forbidden, you don't do it. If I looked at work related or personell files to get info about a co-worker, I would be fired.
I know not to luck up personal info and stuff but I didn't or I would be fired. The paper just showed birthdates and first and last names.
She did give me her address so All I did was get her last name.