1. Best solution: Stop using AOL.
2. Next best: Stop Using AOL.
3. If neither of these choices are acceptable: Stop using AOL and try forwarding the emails to yahoo or another online email account and forward the mail from there. I am not sure, but I think that AOL encrypts the mail sent to it's servers specifically for the purpose of having to use AOL to read them. If that doesn't work see solution number 1.
I'm not being a smart ***, it's just that... well AOL blows harder than Richard Simmons at a "Gay Pride Parade". (Not that there is anything wrong with being gay... do what you wanna do)
You could say I've been around.