My mail server is taking forever to send mail out. I sent a buddy an email and 6 hours later he got it. I looked in the excahnge server and looked in the queue and I see my messages in the queue waiting to go out. Any way I can make this process faster? It's been very slowly getting worse until yesterday when it basically stopped? It's only some domains it does this with. My buddy and I send at least 20 emails a day to each other. My other friend who I send the same amount to gets them instantly? Any ideas?
Here is a screen shot. I've gone through each error message and tried to do the trouble shooting that it's said. I've also manually restarted each of these services. I'm lost. A buddy said I might in the middle of a spam storm, any way if I can tell if this is true?