First, the difference between OEM and Reatail is basically that the Retail will come with a heatsink and fan, and instructions. While the OEM will not, but it may have instructions.
The 3500+ does not have any version with 1MB cache
I would buy the 3500+ because it is socket 939. Although the cache is nice...the 939 upgradability is good.
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