Just posted a long, detailed reply to this then realized i was'nt loged in so lost it ALL !!!!!
Basically comes down to power options in windows control panel. But often much more to getting the comp to "completely power down on standby", which involves bios settings. If anyone's still following this post and needs help let me know or send a private email. TOO late in the night to type it all out again. In Australia when this happens many of us say,"---". Nah ! I wont say it ! Night All. Brunoboy.