i'm currently on my 2nd ws monitor and i didn't even consider going 4:3 for the 2nd one. it's really nice for gaming and video (i use my computer about 75% of the time for these two).
i'd recommend going ws because as you probably know WS is becoming kinda the "new technology" in a sense. WS movies are more popular now than FS ones...etc. basicly what i'm saying is that a lot more things are going to be WS ready in the future than are now too.
And the people who said that you get black bars on the side of the monitor for fullscreen movies on widescreen monitors didn't even consider the idea that the bars also show up on fullscreen monitors playing widescreen movies (except fullscreen on a widescreen monitor has smaller bars). sorry if that's hard to follow i know i only used about 10 different words there.
anyways it looks like most people are suggesting widescreen here, and i think that's your best bet. good luck either way.
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