Is this ping or fps?
Ok first of all the whole packet problem is somthing way diffrent.
Your ping is insanley high becuase you didnt set the Rates right.
Second the whole packet issue has to do with multiplayer like that.
When I play HL2 Gmod on line and I spawn a jeep and I drive it, it lags like crazy, becuase I norally get 150ish FPS but its sending so many packets that in cant do it fast enough and such.
So I did FPS_Max 30 in console and less packets = smooth ride.
So fps or ping?