I have the exact same mobo. I'm not sure if this is what you're wondering, but here goes: The boxy 4-pin square guy goes in the top left, just clicks in and is locked in place. The molex 4 pin guy that connects to your mobo is to keep a stable current, especially if you're running sli, so you should connect that one too.
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