can anyone help me please, as I have broadband I sometimes leave my computer on for long periods of time when Im not using it, but when I come back there are people who have seen me on one of the messengers as being online, I have dis-abled windows xp messenger, and I have set the msn messenger not to open unless I open it, but nothing seems to work, my friends think im ignorant because I dont answer their messages, but they dont seem to understand thatI havent actually put the messenger service on, any help appreciated very much.