so I called up Partspc.com , and spoke with the guy on the phone, who hung up on my once... He was of indian/muslum decent, and I could BARELY understand anything he said. They sent me an email later telling me that i was correct and the memory i bought would NOT work with my motherboard. I am now doing an exchange/upgrade to LOW DENSITY RAM. it cost me a total of about $128 now... and I still have to pay to ship this crap back.
I'll let you guys know how long this process takes....and if I end up getting the right ram !