take a close look at the 2 plugs they are different types. Specifically look at the male left side with a little extra action that is incompatible with the female part.
Yeah I see what you mean now its missing the 2 holes above and below the flat part on the motherboard, Idiotic foxconn just use the most adaptable standard would be the logical choice but no!!! DVI-A is analogue DVI-D is digital and DVI-I is interlaced
You want a DVI-D cable with ports like this
I think you will find thats because you need a converter your tv only accepts analogue you gfx chip only does digital so you would need a converter which is expensive £90 here. You could try an xga box but I am not certain it would work so if you do go down that route by locally from a store with a good return policy just incase it doesn't.