Button Focus Problems

[cribubba2341]

I am trying to build a game for two players. What happens is they will see a page with two buttons and one player has to hit their button (z = button 1/m = button 2) before the other player to continue to the question (Trivia type game). When the page loads up one button (z) is already is focused so pushing the (m) does nothing. I need the form to load up with no buttons in focus but when pushing either (z) or (m) the button will focus and complete its task. The label and check box in my design picture are just in the to remove focus from the buttons on the load.

I am using VB.net 2005

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