Sounds like this guy, if he's sick and thin, always broke... does he seem jumpy and/or shaky? Could be drugs involved. Need to do something because he may also have who knows what kind of diseases. For example, sharp pains that feel like passing a stone could be a sign of PID's. Don't take offense at this, but your parents need to do some parenting and get a phone number where she is staying, if not for checking up on her, then at LEAST for emergencies!