I am intensely patriotic, but we don't have a flag outside (but we do own one), and my wife is terrified of having a gun in the house (I would have no problem with it, though).
We dont have a flag outside and we dont have any guns in the house because my mom doesnt like them. I do however own a paintball gun and airsoft guns but those arent what you were asking about. Therefor i answered : "I do not fly a flag outside my house and do not own a gun"