You Sir deserve a medal, then again me and my mate Ste did have a debate over who what hotter Betty Rubble or Wilma Filntstone, Betty was the winner out right.
But in all seriousness in Japan things are different, it is in jap history not uncommon for a man to have a Wife and then a spiritual wife, normally a minor goddess or even a woman who died before she was married so the soul can pass into the after life - atleast that is what I am told.