Well im in the same boat man. Last time this happend w/ the same chick i tried comitting suicide. It always sux but i say this from experience. Stick w/ your friends and just have fun. if you play in band or in a band then stick to that or your music. If computers is your thing then do more computer stuff. If you have alot of friends then let them help you out and hang out w/ them alot more. The hardest but best thing i can say is try not to think about it. Its a hard ass world and love sux man, but just look at hotter girls and think maybe i could have that lol.