Well I dont care which distro you get, it aint going to be windows, changing a freaking text file with an editor is how 95% of things get configured in linux, you can either find a bloated distro like Mandrake that does these things graphically for you or learn to do it yourself.
In slackware for example you just type xwmconfig from a terminal and up pops a dos like window with some choices, it also comes up when you type pkgtool, or you can do it manually by copying a file
In any case, learning how to do these things is all part of it, I dont know where people get the idea that changing distros will make a huge difference, it wont, the software is all the same, just reskinned and packaged different in some cases, KDE,GNOME, and all the gnu/gpl software tools will remain the same.
When choosing a distro my general qualifications are:How long has it been around?Is it stable?Is it open source and free?Do lots of people use it?How many people involved with its development and for how long?Is it mostly original or is it something cobbled together from other's work?