ok, did what you guys told me to. there were 2 files, so i checked both boxes and installed the driver. it used cd 3 and cd 5.
i restarted and when it was booting up i pressed f2 and i saw my modem's name.
when i went into modem i still didn't see it. and further investigation i looked at the hardware section and saw my modem listed under pci, with correct name and settings. under the driver section is said, driver active, and driver installed.
so if the driver is installed, and i see the name at the boot up, why don't i see it under the modem tab.