i changed the timings back down to 2.5, it was at 3 before.
well the first time, i though having faster ram would be better. so i did 2.3 with 1"1 ratio. not good. then i did back to 2.5 with 2.5 timings. got the 34 then i went back up to 2.6 got it down to 33.whatever yay!