Okey dokey... I found flash.ocx, and I tried to redo the permissions, but those options are not available to me. I right click, hit properties and below is what I see. Ifigured I should do the opposite of what it says since its how ti DISable Flash.
that is correct. The PC I'm on now is also a recent reformat. I can play the videos and everything here. Obviosuly its not a problem with the site - I knew they fromt he beginning.