For ram, newegg has a 1gb pqi dual channel kit for 70 bucks. Pretty cheap and efficient.
Venice core is good, and the DFIi isn't bad even if you don't want to oc. Newegg of course has a combo that will save you 10 dollars off the cheapest dfi lan party. (which will still be 120 dollars)
Another mobo option if you want to save money is the Chaintech VNF4 Ultra.
As for video cards, the 6600GT is a good card.
Venice core is good, and the DFIi isn't bad even if you don't want to oc. Newegg of course has a combo that will save you 10 dollars off the cheapest dfi lan party. (which will still be 120 dollars)
Another mobo option if you want to save money is the Chaintech VNF4 Ultra.
As for video cards, the 6600GT is a good card.