Update
So with the 800 sticks in I set the clock to 400X9, couldn't get it to boot to the desktop until I raised the Cpu voltage to 1.5, ram clocks were 5 5 5 15, default voltage.
3Dmark test was successful, prime95 failed on the last core then pc crashed.
Now I'm at 378X9 with 1.5v
Ran I'm idle at 47 40 40 45 with prime in 10 mins i was at 78 70 70 78 so I stopped the test.It didn't fail so I guess that's good
I was gonna add another case fan but I doubt that will help much plus my tuniq is at default speed, i lost the fan controller connection a while back.