For the motherboard I would go with the Gigabyte X58A-UD3R, it's $209, LGA1366, and it does have eSATA (it has 2 eSATA/USB combo ports, there are a total of 4 SATA controllers one being the eSATA). It has 10 internal SATA ports as well, 2 being SATA 6gb/s. It too has 2 USB3.0 ports. I've been playing with the voltage tweaking abilities and managed to under-volt my i7 930 to cut heat production since I'm using the stock cooler. As for the OCZ Gold RAM, it isn't detected right and defaults to 1066 instead of 1600, but a little BIOS tweaking and setting the RAM voltage and it runs great on my system at 1600MHz and 1.50 V (which is less than the rated 1.65V, but the auto RAM detection wanted to run it at 1.77V which is too high).
I have the 5870 1GB though mine is Diamond branded, but it's most likely the exact same thing in a different color scheme. I'm using the ATi provided Catalyst drivers (not the ones from the CD that came with the card) and it performs very well. I can play pretty much all games (even Crysis) at full speed, full settings, at 1680x1050. Crysis I can set to 2x AA, everything else I've tried at full AA. It does a good job with Folding@Home GPU as well, and I can easily play Team Fortress 2 while folding and not suffer from bad frame rates. I have the i7 930 but the 920 is pretty much the same thing with the multiplier one step lower. Mine gets a bit hot with the stock cooler (running Folding@Home SMP on all 4 cores it reached 70-71, 75-76 C after I tweaked the RAM speed) so I played around with the core voltage until it stayed under 70C without problems, I've been running about 1.1V and it is at 65C at full load now.
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Gigabyte motherboard:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813128423
It looks better than the ASUS you found, it has more USB ports, an additional mini-Firewire port, 2 eSATA, 2 more internal SATA, an extra PCIe x1, and an extra PCIe x16 at the expense of one PCI slot. I also think it has a nicer northbridge/power system heatsink. I also like Gigabyte's Ultra Durable 3 design (solid capacitors, quality transistors, thicker copper PCB for longer life).