Yes get a converter from HDMI to DVI, and then another converter from DVI to VGA. While it is not the best solution, it will work.
You could use either of the last 2 you posted. I didnt know that they had HDMI to VGA converters. But those should work perfectly for you.
I don't seem to have a plug in for a monitor, and I guess is there a way that I can hook up a monitor to a USB port.
I have no idea how they work, however you can get USB to VGA adaptors. I have sold a few of these via my work.
Yes. And it will take a standard VGA cable
ok, i haven't been able to find usb to vga cable anywhere... do you know where i can get one?