After these questions I think I'm pretty much set in what I'm getting. I just need a good case now. My current case I can no longer get the left side off of it to clean it.
The Biostar TP45HP is excellent, it is one of the top overcloking Intel boards.
The 1066mhz ram won't give you much of a performance increase but it will give you more headroom overcloking. I would also consider this ram. The OCZ Golds are great overclockers, zmatt has managed to get them to 4-5-4-15 at 1100mhz.
I think that covers everything besides the gpu. I will make that decision based on the best sale and how much I've got left. This will be approx 2-4 weeks until I have everything, still need a nother paycheck or two.
I'm currently got an 8600 so anything is an improvement. Will look at either a 9800 or hd4850 most likely. unless i can grab a 4870 for cheap.