ok so this ive made some decisions.
my lcd monitor can wait until the holidays come by.
as for now ill be ordering from ncix in a few days.
for the graphics it will be :BFG GeForce 9600GT OC 675MHZ 512MB 1.8GHZ DDR3 PCI-E Dual DVI-I HDTV Out Video Card
and for psu: either OCZ StealthXStream 600W ATX12V 20/24PIN Active PFC ATX Power Supply 120MM Fan Black
or Coolermaster Extreme Power 500W ATX 12V V2.01 Silent Power Supply 20/24PIN 120MM Fan.
any objections?