I've been incrementally raising the voltage and think I've got it stable now at 1.48v, northbridge/fsb voltage is +1, temps are no higher than mid sixties on my core 0, and mid to high fifties on the other cores.
Tomorrow I think I'll get my ram timings back down to at least 4-4-4-12 but for now I'm gonna call it a night. Thanks to all who helped.
Theres a huge differance between a chip getting fried from overclocking and a chip losing more then half of its already unknown lifespan from too much voltage. We don't really know the results of either much like the long term side affects of new drugs are the market aren't really known either. Please don't convey the image that we know everything and all the risks associated, because we simply don't. Thats why any good overclocking guide always has the "Use at your own risk" stamp on there.