Okay guys, its 2:34am. I have everything together now, here is the order I did things.
Got 1 vid card, mem, proc psu, cpu/cooler, dvd drive and 1 raptor in. Installed windows, dl the update utility and flashed the bios to the p23. Then i installed other raptor, created a raid 0 array, and reinstalled windows (side note, they give you a raid disc I did not see so I went to the site and dl their utility to make one, then installed it on a bad floppy, which after I figured out it was bad, I had wasted an hour of my time). I then dl the latest chipset drivers and got them in. I then installed the vid card cd, and then went online and got the latest nforce drivers for that. Shut down again, and installed both the other gtx and the sound card, had to do both because I had the case open and tray out. Rebooted, windows saw both. First installed the GTX drivers again, then the sound card drivers. Went online and got the latest xfi drivers, got those installed, then installed xfi software. Enabled SLI and I'm now fully up and running.
I have not done anything to the fsb or mem. Mem is posting as 800 not 1000. I will mess with OC'ing tomorrow. I am beat tired but I must say that the biggest suprise was how amazing this case is. I mean ****. It is huge and perfect. Everything fits with room to spare. This case is perfect, and with all the fans running I can hopefully keep it cold.
As for the mobo, so far so good. I have not installed the usb headers, and 1 fan header seems to not be working, but I just ran the cable to another power line. Seems rock solid but I need to get some benches up. You definetely have to jump through hoops with all the dl and what not, not a good board for a first time builder. But hey, we all love to tinker so I really didn't mind. I'll OC and continue this thread tomorrow. Have a good night everyone...